“You Look Great”

It’s happening, and other people are starting to notice.

How should you handle a compliment? I used to cancel them out.

  • “You look great.” – “No, I have 30 pounds to go.”
  • “What have you been doing?” – “Diet and exercise. It has been hard!”
  • “It looks like it is working.” – “Well, I have a long way to go.”

These old responses were self-defeating. I wasn’t grateful for my progress and I displayed doubts about my ability to achieve my goals.

So, how should you handle a compliment? With gratitude.

  • “You look great.” – “Thank you.”
  • “What have you been doing?” – “I’ve been thinking about my health and have made some small changes.”
  • “It looks like it is working.” – “Thank you. It is working.”

Be thankful for every compliment that comes your way.

Answer every question in a thoughtful and positive manner.

Know that the change is happening and the compliments are evidence.

 

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-Nomo

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